Forgiveness
When relationships break down, you can be left feeling hurt, suffering the pain and grief of a relationship loss! To move on you are required to let go of the your hurt and pain; otherwise you are likely to become bitter and possibly resentful! The only person suffering is you! At some point you will come to realise this and want to move on by letting go of the hurt(s).
Our healing process requires us to heal the damaged relationships, not necessarily rekindling the relationship, or even breaking the relationship. To heal will bring peace towards that person,(s) having let go of the hurt and misunderstanding between you!
This is forgiveness
We gain closure by healing the above relationship with forgiveness; we can then finally close the door to the past.
Sometimes forgiveness is also relevant when you feel a deep sense of guilt or remorse from your own actions or a perceived ownership of guilt towards your past actions and behaviour, saying how I wish I hadn’t said or done that!
You can learn how to forgive yourself by letting go of self blame, the corrosion of guilt that erodes your soul; even if you were truly at fault! Forgiving oneself is a natural part of your self-healing process and your personal, spiritual development. You can release these events and their emotions from the depth of your Soul.
This is an area of healing that Pamela Skeen at Soul 2 Sole recognises from her own experiences; where a great weight can be lifted from your shoulders. Forgiveness will release the grief, pain and sorrow, returning you to the natural rhythm of joy harmony and happiness of your soul.